You may actually be whinnier than Aurelius is. I mean, Aurelius played the stupid game for 3-4 years, or more and earned the right to pick it apart. Asking FFXIV to not maintain the same crap that made FFXI miserable isn't to be unexpected. Matter of fact, it's kind of one of the major points in having a forum this far in advance of release.
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