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Yep, used to have that problem when I was younger, talking like 15 until 23-24. Last 4 years its been easy. I'm not saying be a big bullsh!ter but just come off like you are tha man without being cocky.

^^^^

wow lol

You need some bar hoochies, yeah!!! Just remember to split before they wake.

I fell out of my chair laughing at this. So funny, sad, and true.

Are these like Amazons or something? Never met anyone of the female race.....but then I'm from the South. Weuns don't have much culture unless yall count that stuff they scraped of my cousin Earl's tooth bout 6 month ago.

Women (as a group - not ALL of them, of course) are attracted by power - it's a biological thing.

But they are also attracted to confidence, honesty, and sincerity. And yes, faking confidence does indeed lead to actually becoming confident. Odd, but true.

But now's here's a little info no one's mentioned yet...
In their teens and early to mid-20's, women tend to be attracted to dynamic, exciting, "guys-on-the-edge." If they haven't settled down by their late 20's, they start to mature (much like we do, actually) and start looking for men with qualities they can live with for many years. This is where honesty and sincerity come in. Please note, also - they are looking for MEN, not boys. A man with boyish qualities, perhaps, but NOT a boy in a man's body (which is frequently what the guys they were attracted to are).

Oh, and temper the honesty initially - don't scare them by "being honest" and telling them ALL your faults...

You've got some excellent advice in this thread - become a man - step up and step out. Here's my phrase I repeat prior to taking a big step "Ain't nothin' to it but to do it!"

Another good one - "Carpe Diem!" Trite, perhaps, but it gets you into the mindset you need to take the bull by the horns!

Hmmm I'm almost out of 7'th geting into 8'th... well I'm not one of those "geeks" but not one the "cool" kids. I'm not stupid tho I act like one. I'm not god awfull looking got a few pimples but not big and showering everyday and all... well IMO I guess if you (Don't laugh) what will you want. Ok think pretend litteraly you're dating a girl. Now will you like the girl to pretend to act cute and "cool" ever since she got you? Will you like it after you get asked to a date only to see her doing something by herself and her friends? Do you want her to after a couple weeks or months and you've told her that she'll take you or something or someplace you don't like? IMO think about what you wouldn't like from a girl friend change it a bit so it's a little more fitting to a girl or wspeficly to your girl friend's opinion. Now think where do you find one? Of course you can try the interent but you should first think where can you meat a girl that you'll like in both apperance and personality. First step is to slowly be a romantic friend because if you first become normal friends (Althrough I'm not sure go say GTHAFM kid) you might have less of a chance of becoming a romantic couple. Now lets see she wants to know that you care for her of course. You're not supose to make her or make her think or assume that you're using her. To show affection of intrest after you guys are in love is to invite each other constantly. Quickly move on before any one else gets on her and tries to steal you or before something bad happens. Now remember if you're serious by now you should be don't wait so long and propose after your best time. Don't think of some romantic hollywood thing unless you're good at making one. Don't think you're old most get and it's a good time to get married at age 28-32 IMO. Just keep smiling and make her feel that her life is good with you I mean she wouoldn't marry you just because you had some romantic nights and days make it everysecond from se x (OOOOO I said oooo big deal) to a simple talking or sitting so it makes her feel that you do care, you do love her, that lifes going to be good with you... this is from a 13 year American born Japanese parents 7'th grade kid. Take my advice or not it's your choice bye.

/Points two posts up.

Holy Buddha, what the hell is that?





Edited, Thu Jun 17 20:02:32 2004 by trickybeck

Please hit the return key sometimes, that is almost impossible to read.

Do you think the 28 year old OP will read past the first sentence of that crap? I did, but that was becasue it took me until your last sentence, to make any sense out of anything you said in there.

By the way, in grade 7 you don't know ****** You haven't even hit the bar scene yet, and the OP is already out the other side.

Actually, most 28ish year old single girls/women, will be feeling their clock ticking pretty hard, and will really be doing some determined searching for the future father of their children. All of their friends should be settling down, having babies, and that should drive them straight into your arms, bit like a stampede. It shouldn't be too hard to cash in here.