Okay I was finally able to upgrade my GPU, thank you all. I went with a geforce gtx 460 nvidia card. I know my cpu bottlnecks it, but i plan on upgrading other parts soon enough. I ran the benchmark for ffxiv and got ~3000 on low and a bit over 2000 on high.
I have posted in other forums, but these ones seem to give me the most help in responses so I'll repost here.
When i open up ffxiv, the update browser does not load anything. I have read that many people had similar problems, but could not figure out how to fix it. It stays at 0% (even after 5 hours) and the update screen is red(I think it should be blue). It shows that there is only about 1 or 0 local connections, while everything else(upload speed, download speed, remote connections remains at 0). I read somewhere some people saying to do something related to port forwarding, however, not only am I not sure exactly how to do that, but I am at UCSB where I am not the one with access to the router, and all students are under the same internet.
If anyone has any idea it would be greatly appreciated