Majivo wrote:
Mazra wrote:
Majivo wrote:
Mazra:
If that were the case, then maybe the OP could have put in the time to make more than a four-word OP. Yes, it's possible that he didn't understand what 'silence' meant; but he could have put in the time and courtesy to make that clear, instead of appearing to trivialize everyone else's time.
Ah yes, the 'go read it somewhere' argument.
Not at all. Did you even read what I wrote? I'm simply saying that posters should make clear what they don't understand in their question; or if they don't understand the entire premise, state that so we at least know they put in a modicum of effort. Yes, this is still a forum. Are you telling me you'd be happy playing lapdog to anyone too lazy to google all day long? To expect that we should sacrifice any appearance of having standards for posting quality here is just ridiculous. Nobody wants to help someone who refuses to help themselves.
Yeah, sorry, the first sentence was a reply I came up with while looking at another post and it makes no sense considering I quoted you, durr.
I did read what you wrote, I even read it a couple of times to be sure. And I'm sorry if I came off as a bit offensive, that was not my intention. I don't think we should play lapdogs, but I don't think we should decide which questions are allowed and which aren't. As Allakhazam picks up in popularity, we'll see an increasingly large number of posters here who are newbies or lurkers in need of an answer to a simple question. Believe me, I've been in the situation where I thought I'd searched the internet thin without luck before I hesitantly posted my question on a forum, hoping it wouldn't come off as completely silly. Most of the time it turns out the question
is quite silly and the answer quite obvious when you look at it afterwards. However, at the time, it didn't seem obvious to me.
Thankfully, I've only ever received patience and understanding from the 'veterans' when doing this. I can only imagine how I'd feel if the first response from a more seasoned poster was 'Go read the FAQ, noob. You're wasting our time,' or 'Google. Try it.'
I'm all for helping people help themselves, but when some people fly off a tangent with insults, there's a little voice in the back of my head that screams 'ONOUDITTEN!' We're all here to receive help or dish out of it ourselves and it's all voluntary. It's not like we're being forced to do it. If we get tired of it, we can just leave. Which is why there's no reason, whatsoever, to be rude. Unless it's someone being rude to begin with, or advertising powerleveling, etc. Those are kill at will.
Maybe I'm just a hippie, but I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt.
Edited, Jun 9th 2009 11:01am by Mazra