Short backstory... last night running H AN with guildies, some of them the more advanced raiders in our guild. They decide they want to hit all the heroic achievements, and we fail miserably time after time. Now I know that at least 3 of the guys are fully capable/geared for such a feat. I'm not sure about another DPSer, and I know I was in way over my head. I'm still fairly new to heroics, and my gear reflects that. I also don't have much experience dealing with that level of activity (honestly, I was over-whelmed by everything going on vs Hadronox with all that trash still up).
So two questions...
1. My gear/build? I thought I was happy with my output in this arms build, but at the end of this run my normally polite GM told me I sucked, followed by what I suspect was a less than sincere "jk". Do I need to be looking at Fury? Also, is my gear that horrible? I know I have some holes (dps plate belts? wtf? there's like one blue in the game) in a few slots. I also know I need some more enchants (just got the mace yesterday). Suggestions? If I move to TG/Fury, what stats do I need to be looking at (for instance instead of crit, haste or whatever).
2. Skills? There were times when I felt totally lost in those fights. I'm usually pretty comfortable in 5-mans, but as the amount of activity scales (ie heroics), I seem to go from keeping up a good rotation, to tabbing around wondering wtf I'm supposed to be fighting. So where can I hone these skills? I never raid because my schedule doesn't allow me to commit to the guild's calender. Should I be pugging raids just for experience?
Any help is appreciated. I'm fine with brutal honesty. Just frustrated because I feel like I was once a smart, capable player and am worried about building a bad rep in my guild for being a gimp.