idiggory wrote:
Not that this will ever be an issue for me (assuming my stance on kids doesn't change, and that I would be adopting instead of using a surrogate if it did), but I would never choose not to know--no way.
I don't really give a crap that it's how things used to be. Nor do I really care about gender roles in decorating--I'd probably be more likely to paint a nursery green/yellow than blue or pink (though blue has been linked positively to development, so I might do that regardless). And my boys would be just as free to play with Barbies as my girls would be with transformers (okay, let's face it, I'd buy the girl the transformers and keep the dolls for myself...)
It's just the fact that I'd want to know everything I could...
I think people who don't let their girls play with LEGO or their boys with Barbies are usually homophobic, so yeah...
By the way, (and this is a question for everyone who isn't completely vanilla), how much do your parents know about your sexual orientation and stuff like that?
For me, it's like... coming out to my dad would have no effect, and if my mum knew I liked girls, too, she'd be delighted, I think, and get even clingier. D:
Also, I don't really want my kids to be white. I wouldn't really mind, but I'd prefer them not to be, if that makes sense.