Xert wrote:
You write as if heals are free, when they aren't. When DPS becomes high maintenance they cease to a boon to the group and start to hold it back through longer breaks between pulls (healer mana), rezzing, and running back from deaths or wipes.
You write as if the cost of healing self-injuring DPS is substantial, when it isn’t. A quick renew covers a great deal of life tapping, and simply keeping prayer of mending bouncing around is often enough to handle the self-damage seal of blood and shadow word death inflict—in fact, these abilities tend to increase your healing on the tank by bouncing the spell back to him, as any healing priest how uses shadow word death for that purpose should know. Greater DPS output means burning through pulls faster, and I arch my eyebrow skeptically at the notion this slight increase in healing will make you need to drink significantly more often.
Now, if I were in a PuG with a moron—say, a warlock who life taps from 90% to 10% over a few seconds of an AOE-heavy fight—I’d certainly whisper him to let him know I can’t guarantee his survival. But since the benefits of having DPS operating at maximum efficiency outweigh the cost of a global cooldown here and there when the tank’s in no danger, I prefer to keep players topped off when they’re using their self-damaging class mechanics wisely.
Xert wrote:
This is nothing about being a prima dona, it is entirely about being practical and weighing how much of my resources I'll allow DPS to draw upon so that they can top a meter at the cost of the rest of the group.
I apologize for seeming to call you a prima donna. But you must realize what others in a PuG will think of a healer who spells out what kind of damage he is willing to heal, and insists that others not use their best DPS options if they expect to be healed.
Xert wrote:
A good healer knows who they would have to let die when push comes to shove in order for the group to win, this is the same thing.
You seem to think I don’t understand the concept of triage, whereas I believe my triage priorities are more rational than your flinty principle of never healing self-inflicted damage.