I agree. Do NOT max out both Benediction and Deflection. 5% Parry is meh for a Ret Pally, but Benediction is pretty meh for a Ret Pally as well, so just pick one or the other (I would lean SLIGHTLY toward benediction, but that is a personal opinion) and then use those other 5 points to get further down the tree to the skills that add damage and crit. Every time you get a skill point, look for skills that increase your damage or crit, or take a new core talent when it becomes available (crusader strike, divine storm). Once you get divine storm and max out your damage/crit abilities, you should take 5 points in divine strenght from the prot tree. It is getting buffed in the upcoming patch to yield a total of 15% strength for 5 talent points, and that is just too good to pass up once you have your core Ret skills maxxed.
After getting the 5 points in Divine Strength, you can then go back to the Ret tree and add other talents for flavor.
The Ret Sticky should give you a pretty good idea of the builds you should be using for PvE and PvP.
For now, I would get rid of deflection (saving 2 points) and get rid of Imp. Ret Aura (saving 2 points) and I would get rid of Vindication (at least for the present) saving another 2 points.
With these 6 points, I would personally max Heart of the Crusader to 3/3 and get 5/5 Conviction. After that your next 3 points should go into Vengeance.
Generally, while levelling up, take the major talents and the talents that add damage and crit first so that you become a killing machine as fast as possible, then add the other talents later on.
Edited, Jan 8th 2009 11:36am by jeromesimina