Ok, so this is going to be sort of a rant post here.
I'm currently in a guild that has Kara on farm, has done ZA numerous times up to zul'jin (phase 3 still kills us), has done mags and gruuls a lot and is getting into the ssc/tk raids. We have some guild members that think they're the know all of druids and it really really bothers me. I'm probably the best resto druid we have gear wise... and hopefully skill wise.. And I like to think that I may have a clue on how to play my druid.
So, there are 4 other resto druids in my guild that when they ask me for advice for speccing, gear to use and what stats to stack I gladly tell them what I think would help them and I never say that "You have to do this!" Well, we have people in my guild that do say this and it drives me absolutely insane. People who haven't played druid shouldnt tell you how to spec, what gear to be using be it cloth or leather. Hell, all my first healing epics were cloth. I don't like when people tell my other fellow druids to be a leatherworker or go alchemy for some epic crafted gear, IE: Windhawk set and Alchemist's Stone for healing/spell damage, take up whatever profession you feel you want. I've seen people on gchat saying that as a resto druid you should be stacking intellect over spirit, mp5 over spirit and so on and so forth. This crap just drives me nuts. I've been told before that spell crit isn't important for a boomkin by guild members and that boomkins can't push out good dps. Don't listen to the nay sayyers.
I've been lucky enough though that my guild leader is a fellow druid and is completely tolerant of my wishes to sometimes dps raids instead of heal, or even go feral and try to tank some things.
This is something for all you new and starting druids out there, don't let people tell you how you should play your druid, do what is fun for you and what makes you enjoy the game. Read the message boards, read the guides and figure out what you think you would like and try it.
I think a lot of you will feel this way, and I really want to know what you guys think about people like this.