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#1 May 01 2008 at 12:01 AM Rating: Good
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I'm sure you've all seen it at some point: the tip at the bottom of the loading screen that reads, "Everything in moderation, including World of Warcraft!"

I've not played the game for a little under three months now, because when I used to play, I was unable to keep it under control. I remember being able to easily go for up to 20 hours at a time, wrecking any semblance of a sleep schedule I might have had. It goes without saying that this sort of routine was positively detrimental to my education, so I canceled my subscription and went on my merry way.

I recently spoke to an old high school friend who wants to start playing again, and he proposed the idea of rerolling on some low-pop, possibly minimally-progressed server. Given my history with the game, I'm reluctant to jump into the fray again, but the semester IS going to be over soon, and for the next few months, the only real time commitment I'd have would be my job.

My question to you rogues is this (and I specifically ask the rogue forums because I know I'll get at least a few decently coherent responses): if you're able to play for a few hours and then walk away for some sunlight or something, how do you do it? The most fundamental nature of the MMO genre lends itself to hooking its players for extended periods of time; where and how does the moderation come in?

P.S. Any suggestions with regard to which server to roll on (assuming I decide to pick it up again)?
#2 May 01 2008 at 12:14 AM Rating: Good
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I would suggest setting a schedule when you will play and make sure you don't play any time other then that. If you can stick to that it will help with not doing the 20 hour marathons. Trust me this can be difficult and I had problems with it at times. After doing this for a while you may gain some confidence and just play at any time and be able to break away from it.

Though ultimately it depends on how much willpower you have and how addictive a personality you have. Trust me as someone with a fairly addictive personality my self I would suggest being very careful and if you feel you're getting addicted again just quit.

If you need any other advice just ask.
#3 May 01 2008 at 4:07 AM Rating: Good
I usually get off if the boyfriend gets mad lol. He's only that way when he comes by to visit and is just sitting around though, so I understand.

If you have a girl/boyfriend to distract you, it'll take you off the game for some reasonable break time. Either that, or try to plan something ahead of time of when you want to stop playing. Say you want to play from noon to 3:30, set up a movie time with friends at 3:45 or 4.
#4 May 01 2008 at 5:46 AM Rating: Decent
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beardownmanup wrote:

My question to you rogues is this (and I specifically ask the rogue forums because I know I'll get at least a few decently coherent responses): if you're able to play for a few hours and then walk away for some sunlight or something, how do you do it? The most fundamental nature of the MMO genre lends itself to hooking its players for extended periods of time; where and how does the moderation come in?


There is no mystical secret to controlling your play time... all it requires is self control. You obviously do not have any in regards to this game, and you know it.

If you can not prioritize your time to keep your life from falling apart, then maybe you should not get back in to the game.
#5 May 01 2008 at 6:09 AM Rating: Excellent
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xNocturnalSunx wrote:
I usually get off if the boyfriend gets mad lol.


This is how it is with me and my wife. I don't play much throughout the week because it bothers her. She understands that afer our little girl goes to bed on Friday it is my game time and I will stay up until the wee hours and I play on Saturday while she is working. Other days are a compromise.

So, to answer the OP's question as to how I prioritize...I'm whipped.
#6 May 01 2008 at 6:19 AM Rating: Decent
It sounds to me like you aren't convinced you will be able to control yourself. I thinks it's important to know when you can handle something and when you can't. Take some time and think about how much you really want to risk falling back into this. If your friend can only spend time with you in the game, it's not worth getting back into the game or having them as a friend. If you do decide that you want to play and you can handle it, scheduling your play time is a great way to limit yourself. Another way is to make short lists of things you want to accomplish each time you get on, and only play until that list is completed. Finally, if you have someone close to you who can objectively tell you when you've been playing too much, that works as well.
#7 May 01 2008 at 7:47 AM Rating: Decent
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Whoa...Nocturnal's a girl? Nice!

To Beardown - prioritize your life. Here's my chain:

Wellbeing>Work>Social Life>WoW>Sleep>Sex>Family Guy
#8 May 01 2008 at 7:48 AM Rating: Good
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Thanks for the suggestions, all.

@PsiChi, the combination of your avatar picture and your bluntness made me laugh for some reason. :P Thanks for your honesty.
#9 May 01 2008 at 9:12 AM Rating: Good
ThomasMagnum wrote:
Whoa...Nocturnal's a girl? Nice!


Either that, or him and I are greatly mistaken and I'm really a man.



Along with what Atrophy said, we both make compromises as well. I mean, if he's playing his video games, then I'm free to play as much as I want. It's just the whole matter of me playing and him just sitting around doing nothing. Which sort of bothers me too because I don't want to be a bad host. This leads to getting off the game and hanging out.
#10 May 01 2008 at 9:30 AM Rating: Excellent
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If you can't control you're play time yourself then have Blizzard help you. They have parental controls that allows parents to set time limits on play time. It's free and part of every account.

Just set a schedule and then setup the parental controls to help limit yourself to that schedule.
#11 May 01 2008 at 9:49 AM Rating: Decent
And Mentalfrog beat me to it lol.

Since like most guilds mine has set raid nights, it's easy for my husband and I to plan around those few nights and spend the rest of the time with each other. Although, if something comes up that is more important, such as family time or w/e, we convey our apologies to the guild but do what needs to be done instead. As was said before, set your priorities and stick to them.
#12 May 01 2008 at 10:11 AM Rating: Decent
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if you're able to play for a few hours and then walk away for some sunlight or something, how do you do it?



umm, hmm. Well I rolled Alliance and I only like PVP, BG'S mostly, haven't gotten into arena yet. So that makes it quite easy to play for only an hour or two at a time. Then I get off and smash my head into hard objects for a while.

But seriously though, I agree with what PsiChi said, and what Nazghul intimated, you sound risky.

Deep down, you know what'll happen eh?
#13 May 01 2008 at 2:43 PM Rating: Decent
When you find a moment of clarity, in one smooth movement, pick your computer up and throw it as far as you can. Your life will change for the better.
#14 May 01 2008 at 9:05 PM Rating: Decent
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how am i not addicted?

1: stop raiding on any sort of regular schedule
2: stop caring SO much about arena (stalled my 2v2 at 1820 for 3 weeks, said **** it lol)
3: dont be a huge fan of bg honor grinds/run out of rewards to get from it
4: play other games that require much more practice then wow ever will (guilty gear/iidx/arcana heart/ddr for myself)
5: socialize in the non game world
6: profit


youll lose the desire to be on all the time, purely out of boredom or w/e.... youll start splitting interests and such

currently im leveling a ****** profession (FINALLY) and a duel a lil bit here n there.... i cant say i even play more then 3 hours a week on average

nice stall until the xpac :D i got months to prep, i wanna be ready
#15REDACTED, Posted: May 03 2008 at 1:01 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) It might help you keep your playtime in moderation if you stick it in her butt, though.
#16 May 03 2008 at 12:04 PM Rating: Decent
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The way i do it is, Weekdays i dont play much. Maybe an hour or less, Oftentimes ill just check the AH or stuff or craft for money or farm. Friday i play most the night if my girlfriend is busy. Saturday I play for about half-all day (unless im helping faimly/friends w/ something, like atm im helping my parents redo ceiling so no WoW for me). And sunday ill play for about 4-5 hours in the morning (i tend to wake at about 6-7 AM. And maybe again at night for an hour or two. I don't suggest rerolling on a low pop server as it might actually increase the time u play because u will spend alot of time looking for groups for things, and the AH wont have alot on it prob. Of course im going to suggest my server, Cho'gall. HODRE FTW. BELF FTL (FTL = for the lose)
#17 May 03 2008 at 1:31 PM Rating: Decent
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I have the same problem as teh OP, once I get on the game, it's hard for me to get off, my poor family. :(
#18 May 05 2008 at 10:08 PM Rating: Decent
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Zornov wrote:
I have the same problem as teh OP, once I get on the game, it's hard for me to get off, my poor family. :(


I have to say if you really are having a problem controlling you play time and its affecting your family now is the time to stop playing. No game is worth as much as your family.
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