I will try and keep this post as short as possible for brevity's sake, but I fear that it will be impossible to do so. I'm a level 70 Dwarf Hunter, and I have a problem. Actually, that's an understatement. It's a huge problem. I do not have a clue what the hell I am supposed to be doing in a group instance. To those of you reading you're no doubt scratching your heads and asking yourselves "How did you get to level 70 then?". I started many years ago on EQ and found that I really enjoyed soloing. In fact it actually puzzled me why anyone would want to group if you could do the task solo, keep all the loot, and have the ability to say "Hey, I did that on my own while you required 3 people to help". Alas, EQ didn't cater well to soloers and on that game by level 50 you were pretty much relegated to having to group, like it or not. I grew to detest the reliance that I had on others to get things done. Shelving quests for months at a time because others in your guild "didn't feel like" helping turned me into a hard-boiled "do it yourself" man.
When I came to WoW I was pleasantly surprised how much of the game was geared towards people like me who enjoy soloing. As I leveled up I came to the approach that if I couldn't find a spot in a group to complete a quest oftentimes I'd simply wait until my level was substantially higher than the dungeon in question and do a solo run through it. This was only made more palatable by the presence of my pet, who serves as a built in 2nd group member by default. I largely soloed my way to 70 and was at one time very proud of that. But as you all know by level 70 it simply becomes a requirement to go into instances to complete quests. And herein begins the crux of my problem.
Everything I have done to get myself soloed to level 70 is instantly tossed out of the window when I'm in an instance. I'm told that as the group Hunter I have to "trap" certain mobs, as depicted by whatever specific icon the group leader places over it's head. Other mobs are denoted by skulls, big red X's, and an assortment of other Lucky Charms icons. After a few runs of having nonstop expletives tossed my way I ultimately determined that to get the target mob's attention better I use Distracting Shot, at which point he veers away from the pack and comes at me. Have an ice trap ready, and voila! Freeze dried fel orc. This small action, and learning to use it reliably, took me a long time with little to no explanation from party members. In fact they all stood around most of the time amazed that I didn't know how to do it already, despite my numerous explanations that I'd never had to do it this way before.
The entire reason for this post stems from some incidents tonight during a non-heroic run through Magister's Terrace. The group was composed of myself, a feral druid, a priest, DPS Warrior, and a Warlock. I've made a grand total of one run through the place and I hate it with a passion. The group leader is the Priest, who was otherwise a pretty affable guy and extremely patient. That first pull, if any of you know what I'm talking about with regards to MgT, is a beast. On both sides are 3 very strong mobs. On top of that a roaming patrol of 2-3 comes by from time to time. The pull is such that no matter where you set up your trap the whole bunch is going to come pretty much in a straight line with little to no deviation in it's path. The priest puts the blue square icon (the eponymous "trap" symbol indicating that this mob is the one to be trapped) on the caster, which has now made my life difficult. I can throw everything I have in my ******* at this ***** and she will not come until her mana's gone. By then the group is wiped and everyone is pointing at me as the cause. After the wipe I tried laying a trap at her feet, which she resisted, and half of the group died. Guess who they pointed at again.
The fun doesn't stop there. Not quite off that first platform the group leader pulls the two mobs in front of the first building entrance. The mobs opposite of the side we pulled are still alive and kicking. He has placed the "trap" icon over one of the 2 door mob's heads and as I maneuver into position to trap the intended mob from an oblique angle I inadvertantly pull the other 3 mobs behind me, while my Distracting Shot pulls the mob who I was supposed to be pulling to start with. What follows looks like the movie reel changing scene from the Shawshank Redemption, as we again wipe. Now I'm really feeling self conscious, and I'm telling myself, "For God's sake don't ***** up anymore.". The Priest chides me gently telling me I must have more situational awareness. I take it on the chin and we soldier on.
The first boss in the instance is a rather mean and nasty guy named Selin Fireheart. Selin stands on a platform overlooking a room and in each corner are two giant green crystals from which Selin draws some sort of power while whooping and hollering about how whatever party is there sucks for challenging him. There are two regular elite mobs in the room underneath Selin, and the group leader marks one with the white skull, the symbol of "attack this mob first". Through some fluke the group ends up pulling the other mob while the Skull Mob stands there. My pet is already on his way in to attack the skull mob and before I can stop him he not only agroes the skull mob but also Selin. Selin drops a translucent barrier in place, which is particularly sucky because now none of us can get into the room as we were pulling into the hallway just outside it. Selin quickly dispatches my pet and runs out of the barrier room through the still closed barrier and begins demolishing the group again. The group leader is telling me to dismiss my pet as that will somehow lower the barrier, but I'm now out of mana and Selin is agroed on me. We wipe again.
I am now feeling humiliated and would like for nothing else but to slink out of the place and forget the name "Magister's Terrace". Soloing is soooo much easier than this but I need to complete the damned quest and there's no way around it. We manage to kill Vellaxus with only my death at the end of that (which I can live with quite easily and happily at this point) and proceed past the "movie orb" as I like to call it. We go deeper into the complex through a couple of L shaped hallways until we hit an open yard. The Priest marks a group of 4 mobs and puts the now infamous blue square over a naga's head. I hate big pulls because they almost never play out how they're supposed to for me. I try to stand to one side of the hallway and put down a trap. I target the blue square head naga chick and sure enough she comes right at me, along with all the other mobs. You see, through some cruel twist of fate I have placed my trap directly in front of oncoming traffic, where it freezes the Big Red X mob instead of the intended Blue Square. I'm in total horror at this point and can only guess that either the puller has repositioned himself behind me at some point, or that I have unwittingly placed the trap in a bad spot. The Priest is now screaming for me to "retrap" and I remember thinking at that moment "He doesn't know there's a 1 minute timer on it before I can use it again. Amazing". We predictably wipe, and I feel it incumbent upon myself to send a tell to the Priest explaining what happened and why it went wrong.
I was about to offer to put up a Repair Bot, give everyone 20g for repairs, and split the scene before it got any worse when he replied and said, in essence, that I basically had no idea what I was doing. I couldn't argue with that. At that point I was booted from the group, which wasn't totally unexpected but still stings quite a bit when it happens.
I am at wits end. I do not know what the hell I can do differently. I seldom group with other Hunters so I don't have the benefit of seeing how others do it. I'm basically reliant upon extremely patient groupmembers to explain to me in detail what I'm supposed to do, all the while trying desperately not to portray myself as some sort of WoW version of Corky from "Life Goes On". I do seriously wish to improve in this area, but I'm now growing so fearful of group instances that I don't even respond when calls are made for extra people for instances where I have 3-4 quests stockpiled. I read the forums but they basically say the same things over and over again (get Agility gear, pick one of two masteries, don't melee, etc.) without any specifics or examples as to how I'm supposed to do my thing in an instance. Thus I bring my case before each of you in the hope's that this non-ending nightmare which I call "Grouping" drives me to become a soloer, not out of choice, but rather out of necessity.