/ranton
I have a hunter guildie that is driving me up the wall.
First off, Arena is the center of his WoW universe, and he looks down on everyone who does not feel the same. He tells me that I might not get a spot in raids because my stamina is too low - at 8k unbuffed. He struts around in his Vengeful Gladiator of the Everything, and always passes on hunter drops. On the one hand, I'm happy to take the gear, but on the other, he's gimping his performance because he refuses to believe that arena gear is not as suited to raiding as raid drops (imagine that -.-). On top of refusing to gear for pve, he criticizes hunters who don't spend however long in arena to get the ax.
He is always trying to encourage the guild officers to evaluate new hunters by taking them into a battleground or arena team. He says that pve is brainless compared to pvp. Granted - pvp is a lot more complex and reflex driven - but why would skill in one translate to skill in the other? They are very different playstyles. It's convenient that the standard he thinks hunters ought to be held to is one he enjoys and meets.
Secondly, he's rich. He invested heavily in jewelcrafting, and is now swimming in gold. So, great for him, but he doesn't understand that not everyone has those resources. Every time we go to a new raid (Kara/Gruul's/ZA) he inspects my talents and /whispers me that I ought to change to this or that spec. I am quite happy with my 41/20/0 build, and I don't feel like spending 100g a week on respecs. If I refuse to take his advice, he moves the discussion to guildchat, insinuating that people who don't use the appropriate spec for the situation are lazy and selfish.
What crossed the line for me, and why I've come here to blow off steam, is that he started criticizing my RL habits. [edit: realized this bit was a little too identifying]
There are several factors that discourage me from adressing all this directly. Ostensibly, he's nice enough. And my guild puts a high emphasis on people being polite (we're not allowed to curse in gchat) and everyone getting along. Coupled with my natural inclination to avoid confrontation, I am shy of losing my temper over an issue that I might have been the only one to notice. Not to mention that I will have to work with this person every weekend for the forseeable future, and I'd rather not strain relations.
The kicker is, he can get away with the arrogance and condecension, because our raid leader doesn't combine Hunter and pet damage. So this guy, with his usual MM/SV build will be above me on the damage charts while being in charge of trap cc. So the general attitude is that he does know what he's talking about.
Help! How do I get this guy to A) stop looking down on the other hunters and 2) admit he might be wrong about gear/spec for raiding??
/rantoff
**Edit** Wow, that's a long rant - sorry about the wall-o-text
Edited, Jan 30th 2008 3:04pm by Laecy
Edited, Jan 30th 2008 5:46pm by Laecy