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#1 Jan 30 2008 at 11:53 AM Rating: Decent
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I have a hunter guildie that is driving me up the wall.

First off, Arena is the center of his WoW universe, and he looks down on everyone who does not feel the same. He tells me that I might not get a spot in raids because my stamina is too low - at 8k unbuffed. He struts around in his Vengeful Gladiator of the Everything, and always passes on hunter drops. On the one hand, I'm happy to take the gear, but on the other, he's gimping his performance because he refuses to believe that arena gear is not as suited to raiding as raid drops (imagine that -.-). On top of refusing to gear for pve, he criticizes hunters who don't spend however long in arena to get the ax.

He is always trying to encourage the guild officers to evaluate new hunters by taking them into a battleground or arena team. He says that pve is brainless compared to pvp. Granted - pvp is a lot more complex and reflex driven - but why would skill in one translate to skill in the other? They are very different playstyles. It's convenient that the standard he thinks hunters ought to be held to is one he enjoys and meets.

Secondly, he's rich. He invested heavily in jewelcrafting, and is now swimming in gold. So, great for him, but he doesn't understand that not everyone has those resources. Every time we go to a new raid (Kara/Gruul's/ZA) he inspects my talents and /whispers me that I ought to change to this or that spec. I am quite happy with my 41/20/0 build, and I don't feel like spending 100g a week on respecs. If I refuse to take his advice, he moves the discussion to guildchat, insinuating that people who don't use the appropriate spec for the situation are lazy and selfish.

What crossed the line for me, and why I've come here to blow off steam, is that he started criticizing my RL habits. [edit: realized this bit was a little too identifying]

There are several factors that discourage me from adressing all this directly. Ostensibly, he's nice enough. And my guild puts a high emphasis on people being polite (we're not allowed to curse in gchat) and everyone getting along. Coupled with my natural inclination to avoid confrontation, I am shy of losing my temper over an issue that I might have been the only one to notice. Not to mention that I will have to work with this person every weekend for the forseeable future, and I'd rather not strain relations.

The kicker is, he can get away with the arrogance and condecension, because our raid leader doesn't combine Hunter and pet damage. So this guy, with his usual MM/SV build will be above me on the damage charts while being in charge of trap cc. So the general attitude is that he does know what he's talking about.

Help! How do I get this guy to A) stop looking down on the other hunters and 2) admit he might be wrong about gear/spec for raiding??

/rantoff


**Edit** Wow, that's a long rant - sorry about the wall-o-text



Edited, Jan 30th 2008 3:04pm by Laecy

Edited, Jan 30th 2008 5:46pm by Laecy
#2 Jan 30 2008 at 12:11 PM Rating: Decent
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It sounds to me like you need a new guild.
#3 Jan 30 2008 at 2:12 PM Rating: Decent
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1 tell your raid leader to combine charts, get ktm and set it up to combine also...
2. explain that X hunter will show more damage on un-combined charts because he is speced for better personal damage
3. Refer them all to here, show them that BM is THE DPS RAID spec
4. PVP < PVE gear in most cases for most specs
5. How old is this guy, he acts like an immature ****.
#4 Jan 30 2008 at 2:54 PM Rating: Decent
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It sounds to me like you need a new guild.


Naw, the vast majority of my guildies are both kind-spirited and competent. I enjoy the atmosphere very much. Just this one guy is a bit of an irritant.

Dari -

I've asked the Raid Leader to combine the pet info, and he says he has, although I still get different results. We use SWStats, which is supposed to be very accurate, so I might be doing something wrong. But I'm wary of insisting that the meter be checked, because of the stereotype of the dpser who cares for nothing but topping the meter. Since I am not a utility player, and from what my meter says, I would be in the #1 slot, I don't want to press the matter too hard.

And this guy is an adult. A father, no less.

I do understand the argument that epic pvp gear is preferable to blue pve, but this guy is passing up pve epics like they're not good enough for him.

/shrug

Edited, Jan 30th 2008 5:55pm by Laecy
#5REDACTED, Posted: Jan 30 2008 at 3:02 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Probably a ****** father.
#6 Jan 30 2008 at 3:08 PM Rating: Good
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Laecy wrote:
He struts around in his Vengeful Gladiator of the Everything, and always passes on hunter drops. On the one hand, I'm happy to take the gear, but on the other, he's gimping his performance because he refuses to believe that arena gear is not as suited to raiding as raid drops (imagine that -.-). On top of refusing to gear for pve, he criticizes hunters who don't spend however long in arena to get the axe.


Without going into people being jerks, at a kara/gruul level of raiding vengeful gear is better for pve, and the axe is pretty much the best weapon you'll get. I don't really understand why all hunters wouldn't get it, as you can lose arena's for 4 weeks and buy the axe.

As per spec, I'm assuming you have a cookie cutter 41/20 build, and as such have the highest potential dps. SV hunters can also pump out the numbers if they know what they are doing though.

Edited, Jan 30th 2008 5:13pm by Xsarus
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#7 Jan 30 2008 at 3:19 PM Rating: Decent
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I'll accept that the Vengeful gear is better than Kara/Gruul's gear.

But I don't enjoy pvp. Getting squashed repeatedly for a month doesn't really thrill me as a recreational activity. Besides, as quickly as this guild is progressing, we'll have Gruul's and ZA on farm and be going on to the next thing by the time I get the second piece of Gladiator gear.

If the argument is available pve gear vs. available pvp, being in a guild that clears two raids a week will get me better gear faster than losing arena matches one after another, and will be a lot more fun in the process.

*Edit* At least, it seems that way. Reading back over my posts, I'm a little ashamed of how beligerant I sound. I'm just in a bit of a snit I suppose.

Edited, Jan 30th 2008 6:21pm by Laecy
#8 Jan 30 2008 at 3:24 PM Rating: Decent
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Xsarus wrote:
I don't really understand why all hunters wouldn't get it, as you can lose arena's for 4 weeks and buy the axe.


Because some of us simply despise PvP as it is and would be against our morals and principles to participate in it? I do not trade my morals for any pixel gear.

@OP

If said person would behave like that in my guild he would get serious warning before removal.
Guild is not only about who has bigger epeen considering dps or PvP or gear color - for me the guild is place where people should mingle with people they like and enjoy to play with.
If someone is molesting or harassing you or making you feel bad about something, I would expect you to tell me as a GM and I would for certain demand of him to ease up or find another guild.
Not to mention that such kind wouldnt be welcomed in mine in first place.

#9 Jan 30 2008 at 4:43 PM Rating: Decent
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Well, I spoke to the guy as delicately as I could contrive, and hopefully, things will improve without the need for more blatant intervention.

Thanks all for the sympathetic ear!
#10 Jan 30 2008 at 6:44 PM Rating: Decent
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got someone like that in my guild today.
Incompetent hunter, MM spec, did worse dps then me in my PvP MM spec, didnt have his pet out, didnt know about attack speeds (wich is the least of his crimes though), didnt MD etc etc etc.....







and seriously, doing less dps then me in pvp spec and AotV to prevent going OoM after 15 seconds?
#11 Jan 30 2008 at 8:26 PM Rating: Decent
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Naw, the vast majority of my guildies are both kind-spirited and competent. I enjoy the atmosphere very much. Just this one guy is a bit of an irritant.


Unfortunately, given what you've said, I would have to say that, ultimately, the others don't matter that much in the actual equation.

The one thing to keep in mind is that, as it stands, there is nothing you can do. As long as the guild leader keeps the DPS charts the same and as long as the guy still keeps looking like he knows what he's doing, there is nothing you can do to change things. Ultimately, as it stands, the current guild atmosphere favors him over you. While they are nice people and people you enjoy hanging out with, in the end they are still just names on a screen and, if you use voice chat, voices in the ear.

While the others have given you some sound advice, in the end there is the question of if you can change the atmosphere. Linking the guy to hear is pretty useless, since it's far too easy to simply shrug off a website you don't want to read than to actually consider you might be wrong when you have that kind of ego. And the fact he's a father means that, pretty much, you'll never get anywhere with him if he percieves you as younger than him. It's a combination of personality traits and real life experience that cause this.

If you can't change the atmosphere (and, given what you've said already, I doubt you'll be able to), then your only option is to consider if dealing with these people is worth the time and effort of dealing with him. Given that you've had to come on here and rant to let out steam, obviously you're already at a point where it may not be. The question thus becomes not if it is possible to change him, but how long you are willing to put up with him.

I know what you were not looking for was this solution. And I hope my assessment of the situation is wrong. But, if it isn't, then this may be your best way to deal with the problem.
#12 Jan 31 2008 at 7:55 AM Rating: Good
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Sethy wrote:
Xsarus wrote:
I don't really understand why all hunters wouldn't get it, as you can lose arena's for 4 weeks and buy the axe.
Because some of us simply despise PvP as it is and would be against our morals and principles to participate in it? I do not trade my morals for any pixel gear.
I totally get the not liking pvp, Although I've found arena's a ton of fun, and unlike any other pvp in the game. I'd say give it a try, but if you really don't want to, it's not going to hinder you. With that being said morals and principles?????Smiley: rolleyes
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#13 Jan 31 2008 at 8:15 AM Rating: Good
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PvP is tough. Done it for 2 weeks now. I'm in a modified PvP spec and it works well enough for me. Last few fights I've been on top of the team DPS but it seems I'm targeted faster than our healer and I hang out in the back. When I get to the side or behind the other team, I make them pay, but normally I'm dead in less than 15 seconds. I don't know why Hunter = Kill first. I always thought it was the healer that should go first...

I want the axe and some better shoulders. I need to re-gem my pants, they are very weakly gemmed at the moment. I'm having a tough time deciding what to re-gem them with. I'd like something utility that will last through WotLK release and it's first few levels. After that, all my gear will be worthless to what should be in WotLK.

So, PvP right now is fun when I can live long enough to actually make a difference, but beware Hunters, you are almost on par with the healer for being first target. I think that says plenty about how strong the Hunter class is right now.
#15 Jan 31 2008 at 8:58 AM Rating: Decent
I love being the Classleader for Hunters in my guild. It allows me to winnow out all the retards, huntards, poor attitudes, cUnts and people I generally don't like.

I had a similar Hunter in the guild, and he had been invited by another Officer as a real life friend without my knowledge. Thus, he also bypassed alot of the information he would otherwise be required to read/know to gain entry into the guild. Now, I logged on my own Hunter, and ran into the fellow in Shattrah. Apparently he didn't check the guildlist for my rank, because I quite quickly found myself perused quite close. My specc was apparently not good enough (cookie cutter 41/20/0, pretty much), and my gear really didn't fit for raiding (Tier 4, one S1 piece, Sunfury and so on).

Slightly amused by this lad, I decided to check his own gear and specc. He was 5/40/16, and his gear had more spelldamage than my Mage has.

"Right... since you obviously know your stuff, mind explaining why you are wearing so much spelldamage gear? Not to mention raid with a PvP specc?"

This of course led to a quite lengthy explanation of Mend Pet, Arcane Shot and Stings for DPS. Spelldamage boosted it all, apparently. At this point I'm frothing at the mouth, since I got a whisper from another Hunter about this guy harassing every Hunter in the guild about their gear and specc. When he started telling me his specc wasn't for PvP, it was the highest DPS specc for PvE, I snapped.

First I gave this lad a thorough and long explanation of the mechanics he mangled rather horribly. Then I went over to the subject of his ancestry and lineage, and how this subject could be visualized in the nearest zoo. After briefly digressing about how scientists were now harnessing limitless amounts of power from Darwin's spinning corpse due to his continued existence, I finally started to run low on insults and had to resort to taking stabs at his sexual preferences and lack of companions to practice said preferences.

"FUck you, noob. Who the hell do you think you are? I'm going to get you kicked by (insert rl friend and Officer name here). You don't know anything about Hunters..."

At this point my crotch started telling me in no uncertain terms that it had absolutely no problem with me taking this fellow down a peg or two. My crotch often influences my decisions, and has yet to fail me.

"Check my guildrank, lad..." My guildrank is "Guildmistress" by the way. I took over the position of guildleader a little while ago, and kept my position as Hunter CL as well.

His silence was deafening. Almost the entire guild had listened to me running a live commentary on Ventrilo and was now waiting with bated breath. "I didn't mean that, you know..." The guild erupted into laughter, and it spilled over to Gchat, revealing my live commentary to him and the Officer who invited him. Well, my guild and a couple of guests from three other raiding guilds had followed it.

After a well deserved gkick and the other Officer leaving willingly, we got to work. Getting the collective raid guilds of an entire server to blacklist two people takes a bit of work. As far as I know, they haven't migrated yet, but I have a feeling we'll get rid of them soon enough.

Moral of the story? None, really... Retards are retards, and the only solution is to get rid of them. There's no other option. You can't educate someone who already thinks they know everything there is to know. Your only hope is to get his superior officers to come to these boards and find out the facts for themselves.

Edit: Managed to make his specc 5/40/15, instead of 5/40/16

Edited, Jan 31st 2008 6:00pm by NorthAI
#17 Jan 31 2008 at 9:21 AM Rating: Decent
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scientists were now harnessing limitless amounts of power from Darwin's spinning corpse due to his continued existence


How do you come up with this stuff??
#18 Jan 31 2008 at 9:28 AM Rating: Good
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Laecy wrote:
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scientists were now harnessing limitless amounts of power from Darwin's spinning corpse due to his continued existence


How do you come up with this stuff??
This is why north doesn't post so much anymore. He spends all his time coming up with insults. nice.

Also blacklisting is great. Even better is putting a bounty on their head.
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#19 Jan 31 2008 at 9:38 AM Rating: Decent
You blacklisted a previous officer in your guild for inviting someone who didn't know much about the class and had some arrogance?

What an *** you are. Let's hope he comes round your house and hurts you :x
#20 Jan 31 2008 at 9:47 AM Rating: Decent
If you think blacklisting someone is as easy as just saying "don't invite that guy", you are sorely mistaken. It's not even blacklisting, since I have no influence on other guilds whatsoever. All we do, is inform the guildleaders in question about the fellow and his transgressions. Whether or not they blacklist him, is completely up to them.

The blacklisting of the former Officer was influenced by several other incidents, amongst others the harassment of a 13 year old girl on VT. He was going to be dumped soon anyway, and this was merely the drop that made the cup overflow.

Still, you are quite right. I am an ***** and I have no qualms about making the virtual lives of people I don't like, worse. It is one of my hobbies, and I delight in watching/hearing the people in question behave as if their virtual standing has any significance whatsoever.

Xsarus: I am fully aware of bounties being effective, but I am not going to spend a single gold on these guys. I do believe I've told you guys about the friendly relations we have with a few Horde guilds on the server? We scratch their backs by hunting down their fellow hordies when they need someone... disciplined, and they return the favor.

Will have to pop onto their VT's soon, and spread the word. Thanks for reminding me.
#21 Jan 31 2008 at 9:50 AM Rating: Default
EDIT: Tell him to stick his PVP gear up his ********. Then see if he'll whine about your stuff

Edited, Jan 31st 2008 12:53pm by xNocturnalSunx
#22 Jan 31 2008 at 10:52 AM Rating: Decent
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For one, skil between PvP and PvE are entirely different and so are the stats associated with said style of play.

Second, while PvP gear can be quite good for certain situations, ie S3 Arena while playing in T4 and even some T5 content.... any GOOD hunter should know that there are seperate gear lists for a reason.

Third, if you plan on raiding, and have the expectation of being a reliable, great, and desirable addition to your raid, why would you ever forego a piece of gear, like the Arena S3 Hunter axe? Your sense of morality aside, thats just retarded... if you want to be the best you have to get the best gear (and skill obviously) and if your not WILLING to do it that automatically takes you out of the running.

Lastly, you guildies an idiot, /gkick him and be done with it, his gear is ok now, but when it comes to the real T5 and T6 content he not going to add anything to your guild that another mage couldn't.
#23 Feb 01 2008 at 2:12 AM Rating: Decent
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Laecy wrote:
But I don't enjoy pvp. Getting squashed repeatedly for a month doesn't really thrill me as a recreational activity. Besides, as quickly as this guild is progressing, we'll have Gruul's and ZA on farm and be going on to the next thing by the time I get the second piece of Gladiator gear.

Speaking from the point of view of a lofty 1282/1147/1239 Rated Arena team member (in case you're not terribly familiar with the Arena, you start with 1500 points and go up or down based on your wins and losses in a system similar to that which chess ratings uses. In short: We suck) it is not at all painful, and can be a heck of a lot of fun. My teams were started by RL friends with very low gear levels, there's only a single other who is just a bit shy of my own gear level (primarily T4 equivalant), the rest are very distant followers. We get on Ventrillo and laugh about how we're going to get slaughtered, and make our simplistic plan and cheer when we get even a kill, much less a win. And it's fast. You only need to run 10 games amongst your entire team, so in my 2v2 team where we have 4 members each person runs from 3-5 matches (you have to run at least 3 to get credit). With a fast queue time for the 2v2 matches this can be over in about 20-30 minutes. It's not as dreary as "getting squashed repeatedly for a month" comes across at all, especially if you have a strong ego and don't get upset over losing. Now that we've been doing this for a bit I've bought and gemmed my S3 Helm, and a few others have picked up a piece or two also. We're starting to win more and lose less, and as we keep going this trend will continue to the limit of our gear and skill and experience.

Give it a shot, you have only your share of the team formation fee to lose, and there are at least two pieces (helm and 2-hander) which fit in with PvE gear very well. With just a little bit of extra time you can do both your Gruul's Lair and ZA raids and also earn some Arena points. Plan out your upgrades carefully enough and you can pretty much double your gear replacement rate.
#24 Feb 01 2008 at 8:08 AM Rating: Good
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Kinda skip read the thread, so sorry if this has been mentioned before.

Might be worth logging (or suggesting that an officer logs) the combat for raids and puts it up on WWS http://wowwebstats.com/.

Chances are aswell as not combining pet data that your officer is also not breaking down the damage meter in terms of boss fights vs trash fights (difference being boss fights are more important and tend to favour those with pve stats i.e. hit).

WWS gives you a nice report that lets you break down damage done by encounters and so you can for example see how well everyone did on your first gruul attempt of the night.

I think there's instructions on the site, one thing to remember is to change your combat log range to the max (there's some fancy macro that I can't remember) as not all damage meters do that automatically.

Then you can post a log of your instance with a 'hey guys, look at this cool site I found' and hopefully from that have some evidence to point towards you being better than the whiner.
#25 Feb 01 2008 at 8:50 AM Rating: Decent
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Oh, also, my guilds been through a sea of drama, and we support the ignore list... Try just putting the guy on ignore. I know it seems wierd like for raids etc but hey, he's outa your hair.
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