Ok, this is going to be split into two things I'm a bad paladin at and want advice:
First is tanking: On both my horde and alliance server, I've noticed a troubling lack of tanks. I've put off playing both my hunter and respecced my holy paladin as a tank.
So far, I tanked ZF. It went alright, but I felt like I was barely holding on. I had to recover mana a lot, and use Righteous Defense a lot; people were pulling enemies off that I had to grab. All in all a pretty stressful time. Against bosses it was easy to keep hate, but it was against multiple mobs that I had trouble. Admittedly the party was a bit overzealous with their forward momentum, but even if I could get the mobs to hit me 1st I'd often end up chasing one.
Casters were a huge problem; since they weren't attacking me, they'd easily switch to the healer, and I'd have to charge over, dragging the other mobs, and DPS, along with me.
I don't even know what to ask really, just.. how do I make this work.. less stressfully :P What are the ideal blessings and seals to use? I used mainly blessing of sanctuary on myself/blessing of salvation on others. Seal of wisdom for myseal. Lots of consecration if things would turn away from me, causing a big mana drain.
PvP:
OMG BGs are a frightening place for a paladin ; ;
You're not much good on your own, so I usually find myself chasing after teammates who seem to scatter in all directions, trying to get heals onto them as they get smashed by a pile of opposition. Usually one or seven of the opponents wise up and lock me down, while my poor teammate gets turned into sauce. After that, I'm alone again and usually just /sleep until they kill me.
I would have thought protection would have been more fun in BGs, but I think I actually survive *less* and am less helpful as its hard to get heals off even with concentration aura.