The only reason I post this subject here is because the vast majority of you seem to be in mature raiding guilds. Think your opinions here would help me make a big descion.
The guild's leader has two RL friends also in the guild. One of them is the problem.
So where to start? Okay I have made friends with another female (mayla) in the guild. We came to the guild for the same reason... to hang out, do some 5 mans and 'see' about raiding sometime in the future. Naturally, we generally feel the same about most game issues, but she's slightly more liberal than I am (shocking I know). Recently, due to some GL life issues, she's become the stand in Guild Leader.
Problems arose when she was checking the vault log and noticed one person in particular had withdrew (shy of 100g but over 80g) for what they say is repairs spread out over the past week or so. (I think this is complete bull, I gave him 100g for his mount as well as his two RL friends in the guild) I know that repairs on equiptment can get rather expensive. However I don't believe a 60-63 undergeared (about half greens half blues) DPS (I hope cuz if he's a tank he sucks) should be spending 100g a week on repairs. General knowledge of the guild was the money was for mount upgrades and things of that nature.
Mayla asked for my advice, I said contact the GL and see what he said (I don't want to be biased, because I already highly dislike the guy). He said that sounded a bit much, and deal with it how she thought best. She contacted said idiot and he said he'd donated to the guild and said if he donates he should be able to withdraw as well. (I have a real problem with this guy he has a habit of calling everyone **** and bit*hes... of course Mayla is not partial to that either, to which any reply to our outrage is "sorry" /log)
Mayla came up with the idea of a pyramid of some sort. Making it mandatory to donate before being granted any level of access to the vault(The reply from the guild to this was complete outrage). I think she's on the right track. I don't think it's enough, but have no idea what to do.
Can anyone tell me what we are doing wrong? Is it something in the female wiring that we don't see what's so bad?