You know what, I don't particularly feel like being an *** today, but here you're asking for a flame: how on earth can you possibly ask this with so many threads on the topic, including the one which princess gave you (above) which says in capital letters: READ THIS BEFORE POSTING A HEMO THREAD...
I say it's pure laziness and I do not approve of it. Learn to read existing answers before asking the 1001 times answered questions!!!
nostra