I'd like to add, now, that I actually skipped the 39 bracket to continue rolling Prot Tank for instances.
I must say that some of my earlier complaints I have found a solution to! The most irritating things were terrible DPS classes that would not follow instructions, followed by being forced to group with other crappier tanks that would still taunt agro on purpose, and finally not being able to find a decent healer.
As obvious as this sounds to a lot of you out there I'm sure -- FRIEND EVERYONE who you have an outstanding run with.
I now have a network of over 10 Priests, about 8 Mages, 5 Rogues, 5 Locks, and a few other filler classes (Hunter, Shaman, Druid) that I know I can count on to excel and Holy Crap I cannot believe it. Every run I become more and more amazed at how fluent we all work together. Not only do I know they know how to play, but the more I play with these same guys over and over the more we all learn eachother's limits together.
If you were like me out there, getting completely frusterated with groups... start doing what I did and whenever you meet someone excellent who feels you excelled at your job - FRIEND EM!! Even if the rest of the group was terrible, if you meet a friendly and compitent DPS or healer out there snatch them up in friends immediately - if they liked you they'll do the same.
Now when I log on I usually get 2-4 group invites without lifting a finger, and they're the best pseudo-PUGs ive ever had (including my 70s.) I'm friggin loving it.
Edited, Dec 5th 2007 2:31am by tzsjynx