I really wish this was a loaded question; and that it was a joke. I don't intend it to be loaded, nor is it a joke. It comes down to this; If I don't take the Paladin as the MT in 99% of raid situations, he will gquit, and next time I see him downtown it's going to be a /punchtotheface for me. He WOULD do it, trust me. The warrior, who will be referred to as TT, thinks the idea of taking turns tanking mobs that don't do any of the "bad" things that make Paladins unable to tank them unless you take a lot of precautions is a good one. The Paladin, who will be DM from here on; has not been told of this plan just yet. I explained to TT that in raiding you need more than 1 single tank, and later on you might need 3-5 in a couple(I can think of 1 right now, the phoenix in The Eye), and they will all need gear, not just 1 person. He's cool with it, but then he told me this; DM said that if any tankin gear drops, its his regardless. I don't know where he got that idea from, and the only time I ever told him he would have rights on something is if the staff dropped off The Curator, and his only roll competition was someone who just joined. I can't start taking reservations on gear for people, that'd end up destroying the guild due to favouritism, and I don't want that.
DM has a 70 warlock, as well as his paladin, and TT has only his warrior, who is currently protection spec. TT has been playing longer, and has only ever played his warrior(recently he made a mage to keep himself occupied while we get a couple more people ready). DM refuses to raid heal, spot heal, offheal, help heal, use heals, and any other way you want to say it. If he isn't tanking, he isn't playing. Thats the mentality I got struck with this morning when I met him for coffee after I got done work. How do I answer to something like that, when if I say the wrong thing, he's gunna come at me like a spider monkey?
I will agree with you guys in that this is simply childish, and DM's attitude is ludicrous. But this is the decision I've been placed in, and they're both looking to me for a resolution. It's kind of weak that this is about a damn game, but unfortunetly thats just how it is right now. But what do you guys think of that? In situations where both classes can tank effectively, it'll come down to who tanked the last boss. 50/50, split it down the middle, divide and conquer. Both tanks need gear, both tanks will get gear. If one week TT tanked Maiden, next week DM gets to tank maiden. When TT is done tanking maiden, DM will tank the next boss. That probably won't be an issue though, where it'll come down to the wire is when you need both people. Attumen is a no-brainer. Disarm = win in that fight for sure, but what about Moroes? Should I put DM on moroes as MT and TT as OT? Switch it around? Flip a coin?
I'm just trying to find an alternative that will keep DM happy, keep my face intact, and keep everyone happy. That's the biggest thing for me though, keeping everyone happy. They're my IRL friends, I don't want to show favouritism to one and not the other because that isn't how it is with me. I had the idea that some nights TT is the MT, and some nights DM is the MT, and DM basically said to me "So you're f***ing me and putting me on the sideline?" He really has no confidence in TT's ability to tank, due to his earlier attempts at it that were less than impressive. Recently he has gotten a LOT better, tanking multiple mobs like he's been doing it for years, his single target threat generation is very nice. DM told me though this morning; when I can grab hate off him in seconds, he isn't going to raid MT anything. What he let out was that he only let 1 sunder appear before he let loose warlock fury. I've taken my rogue into BM with TT, and as long as I didn't poke the elites in the *** at the start of the fight, glancing at my aggro bars and hitting Feign every once in a while was enough to keep aggro off me. I don't know about you guys, but that seems like a fairly decent tank.
I'm stuck at a crossroads here, and I'm hoping you guys can help me decide what to do. I don't want to hurt anyone by picking one over the other, but I also don't want to hold back guild progression because of a poor decision.