The Quest Rewards will allow you to build a Tanking Set and / or a DPSset. There are no quests (IIRC) that give you a choice of plate items - and you will go through days/levels of only encountering Pally Plate too. That's your Quested Gear taken care of. A Set built this way, won't be terrible, but it won't be good.
Be aware that outside of HFP, where all rewards are hugely better than Azeroth Gear, as you progress further you'll find that with a few exceptions (ie Blues), most of the armour will bring you to a minimum level to compete at that level, you'll be replacing or vendoring often. The really good rewards will be BoP or BoE Blue instance drops. This is the stuff that lasts.
Again, you won't have a choice of drops, it's a chance of Plate, (cloth, leather or mail) but it'll be Pally, Tanking or DPS. You won't be able to get 2 different usable pieces from a boss.
As I was levelling to 70, with the exception of one or two pieces, I didn't have a choice of armour. An upgrade was an obvious choice; There was no point in building 2 sets of armour, because one was always lousy, and its counterpart in the other set would have been better. There was nothing worth buying in the AH, because it would be replaced quickly.
Some Quests may have a choice - A Tanking Weapon, A DPS Weapon or <something for the casters>. These are the only choices you'll need to make.
Regarding the Respec to Prot. Do it. Do it sooner, rather than later.
There are 2 schools of thought to becoming a tank: Level it, or Respec to it. I'm of the first school. The sooner you switch to Prot, the better Tank you will be.
There will be people who tell you this is wrong, and that they've sucessfully tanked in DPS kit, in Zerker as Arms/Fury. Either Listen to them, or Ignore them, but, please, say a prayer for their poor healer.