The Real Deal:
Look, the Hunter forums here on Alla helped me immensely. I've only been posting here for a few months and North, Caldone, skribs, Azuarc, azwing, ZulFreize and more (sorry if I didn't mention someone) have all helped me in some fashion, even as a newbie. They DO help newbies and they do make an effort to be thorough.
Are some more 'undiplomatic' about how they present things, certainly, but that doesn't mean they are preaching, it just means that is their style and they are entitled to it. Some horses are taller than others but you don't need a tall one to be heard loud and clear. In fact, reason is its own reward and most folks will pay attention to well spoken reason. No need for a pulpit.
On Newbies:
We probably need a "New to the Hunter Forum? READ THIS FIRST!" Sticky that has a small single post with the general 'ideas' of what is expected of them before they post here for the first time. If the newbie ignores that thread, they do so at their peril.
I won't flame a newbie, I'll casually guide them to what will help them, as it probably helped me, but I won't flame them. They might get some heat depending on their approach, and I'll usually post up after that heat to calm it down, even if the new poster deserved it. So, I occasionally get labeled a carebear. It doesn't bother me.
On Flame Wars:
What does bother me is that some people insist on launching attacks while pretending to 'care' about the newbies, or just because they've had a bad day- who knows. It has less to do with caring about newbies or days and more about an excuse to attack some others here that they have feuds with. I've watched both 'sides' do this. It's stupid. Once a thread has devolved to that, it doesn't help hunters, it doesn't do a thing for WoW and it's off topic. Take it to the OoT or to private messages, we don't need to see it. I keep watching derailed threads like this one just in case it gets back on topic, which this one has. Not all threads have to be on hunters or wow, there's a little hunter family here, but when it gets extreme, put it where it belongs. As azwing said, this is normally the realm of the Admins, but since they are rare, we have to do this ourselves. Grow up folks...
The Root of all Posting Manners:
Prove your worth by ADDING intelligence and experience to the forum. Ask questions that make everyone better or will at least get you to the point where you can participate evenly. Keep your flamethrower under lock and key until someone decides that you are a target, then fine, open fire, but if it doesn't add to the forum, move it to OoT or the Asylum, they love fights. Funny or fun topics and comments are welcome, real attacks are unnecessary.
The Death of a Thread:
Katchii has made his points, he's OP on this. He's clarified, redacted, and gotten the feedback he was looking for. Can we bury this thread now? It's my belief that if you have something constructive to add, do so, if not, take it elsewhere.