Actually, the answers to the above q's are in the original post:
-> "2h mace skill is only 5-6 points below capping", so no dual wielding and not entirely capped but close.
Mind you, OP, with 5 levels below capping and mobs 1-2 levels above you it is (almost) the same as mobs being 2-3 levels above you.
Yes hit rating gear will help you out, but there is not TOO much of that around your level. Mainly you have to fight mobs a bit lower for now and stop focussing on the misses/parries/dodges and start enjoying the actual damage you deal /smile.
Of course it is always possible that you had a bad streak, unless it lasts longer than lets say 3 fights. If it lasts longer, while all other parameters in the equation are corrected (lower level mobs, more +hit), then you just suffer from the "bad luck - syndrome" or commonly translated "Donald Duck - ism", which unfortunately happens to be incurable.