TheBarrister wrote:
I'm not a big converter/convertee, but people who are passionate about something would naturally want to share that passion with others. Whatever it may be about. That just makes common sense.
Show of hands: Anyone out there tried to convince someone to try FFXI? (aka "convert them")
I submit that there's nothing wrong with attemting to share your beliefs with another person, just so long as you know how to take "I'm not interested" as an answer and stop.
"You should play FFXI"
"Maybe"
"But it's fun! You can level any job you like!"
"I'll think about it"
"Seriously, here's a buddy pass!"
"Ok, leave me alone"
"You aren't going to get on and level with me?"
"NO, GO AWAY!"
"You should be a Christian"
"Maybe"
"But it's fun! You can get into heaven when you die!"
"I'll think about it"
"Seriously, here's a bible!"
"Ok, leave me alone"
"You aren't going to go to church with me?"
"NO, GO AWAY!"
If you like something, share it. If you don't want to hear it, tell them no. If someone tells you no, leave them alone and move on. It's all pretty cut and dry. I really don't see why so many people are so adamantly opposed to the very IDEA of expressing your own interests to someone else. Surely everyone who has posted has tried at some point in their life to get someone else to play FFXI, or watch some TV show they find interesting, or listen to some band they like, or even try a certain type of sandwich or pastry that they thought was a constant tastebud ******.
I like pastrami on rye, with sauteed onions, spicy brown mustard, horseradish, and a melted slice of provolone cheese on top. I apologize if anyone is offended, but I think that if you haven't tried one, you really should.