a little, but not really. I just tend to ignore it, but I can also zone out bits of information more effectively that most people (meaning I can consciously ignore only part of what I'm seeing or hearing. most people, its an all or nothing thing, or if they can "selectively ignore", its not a truly conscious decision. but then again, as my friend and I like to joke...I'm a freak of nature *smile*).
I wish you luck in figuring out how to get around the tail wagging problem. but in the meantime, here's a joke...is the Iksar wagging its tail, or is the tail wagging the Iksar? (yeah, its bad, but if you can't laugh at this bad joke...)