Good morning, AllaK's - 2/18/08Follow

I was out of town for a few days so not much playing time. Last night I finally got on, thinking tonights the night I'll get my last instance and finish my epic!!! Or I'll help people get theirs!!

Instead I spent 4 effing hours playing around my house as no one needed me and no one had time for an instance until "a little bit later". I finally logged off at 11 after reading half my collection books and redesigning my house. My husband asked if there was a guild run of the instance I needed could he take my char. I told him no, because I wanted to be the one to finish my epic. I worked really hard to do this on my own as much as I could. He went ahead and did it anyways and just told me. Stupid thing to be mad about, but I am really pissed off. As far as Im concerned he took away the feeling of accomplishment from me on my epic, and right now Im not inclined to be understanding about that.

If he had done it as a surprise without asking, I'd be on his side as he was trying to do something nice even if it wasn't something you wanted. However having asked and you directly telling him "no", and doing it anyway...that would **** me off.

Congratulations anyhow. I'm still trying to get the first group part done. I have a long way to go.

Has he finished his epic yet? If not you need to finish it when he isn't around. Or better yet, wait until he is one encounter away then delete it from his quest journal. Yes, I like that one. Do that.

DSD, I feel your pain! It's not about pulling the thing out and slicing up mobs with it... but more about being able to see it come out and know "I did that... I made it happen". And in taking the last step for you, it is not entirely your accomplishment.

Just know that he meant well and that it's just the way guys are hard-wired. When we see a task that needs to be completed, our first impulse is to complete it. Then when told that completion is not what you need our second impulse is to follow our first impulse!

Stew for a while but let him out of the dog house eventually!

As far as my weekend, I continued my crawl from 75 to 76 in both adv lvl and crafting lvl. Oh, ok... crafting isn't really a crawl anymore... These days, you wait for vit, chug a potion and after completing 1st craft bonus on all the new recipes, you grind out the last 15 or 20% (I made backpacks which sell as fast as I put them up!) and BAM you're there!

Adventure wise, I started tooling around in Kunzar on Saturday and it's a blast! A little dicey for a solo 75 but fun.

Missed this first time reading the thread (small indication of the wildness saturday), still a huge gratz for the epic DSD!

I can definitely understand why you're mad at him though, but on the other hand, you did do the most work and now you have the weapon! (small comfort perhaps)