Well, I haven't been very far in zones, but the Antonica zone on the Oggok server isn't bad at all. Rather to the contrary, hardly any ooc talk at all unfortunately.
So far, the bulk of the questions are people looking for places or mobs or groups.
I will never turn the ooc off, I enjoy the occasional conversations too much but often in EQ I it did go too far. Calling people *****, a****oles, ... is not done but then you can always just ignore those players if it really is too much. I would hope though that GM's would come down hard on any players starting to talk about drugs or excessive and illegal sex (rape and the likes).
It's a teen game, this does not belong there nor anywhere if you ask me. (I won't lie, I can tell tales about alcohol and sex too, lol, but never in an online teen game)