Okay I got EQ2 and been playing for awhile. Here is "my opinion" on the gaming of what is out there.
As for the "new" generation of gaming. WoW (which is beta only at this point)) greatly surpasses EQ2 in look/feel and adventuring. WoW is easily handled by my computer, has great graphics and overall is just alot more enjoyable playing. In WoW they seemed to have incoporated all the good things from all the other games. Just check out the link on the top of this page.
I have been playing EQ since it's release and as far as I'm concerned EQ is much better than EQ2. I plan on staying with EQ. The developers should have put their efforts into making EQ have the look of EQ2. The $50 for EQ2 was a waste, but I do like to check out what's out there.
So For me it's EQ, and for experiencing the new generation of gaming it's WoW.