Rhythmmm wrote:
An LS full of people who not only don't mind helping those in front of them get an item but also don't mind passing on an item they really want and in line for will go a long way because it creates a self-sustaining cycle. It might seem unreasonable to expect that, and is extremely rare, but I truly believe you'll attract people like that eventually if you're a similar person genuinely.
I have no doubt that things like token systems arose to not only serve as a hard counter to bad RNG of the olden days, but to help curb the player politics of yore with a portion of the who deserves what rhetoric. And while we still see the occasional drama with the few RNG drops here in XIV now, I do still worry a bit about the future of things when it comes to groups and choosing what activities to do, especially if they wind up better favoring a leader and their friends.
Personally, I don't feel charisma is a strength of mine. I may be able to wordsmith some good posts, crack some good jokes, and all that fun stuff, but I know I'm someone that better assists a leader than being THE leader. I think this is part of what upset some folks in my XI past and led to some misinterpretation as I was generally mindful of how my peers were performing and was often playing more the role of tactician to better adjust to what we had available and the flows of battle. I knew who was generally better equipped for what roles and if they were even any good at it. At the same time, we tried to juggle burn out so those "cursed" more into roles like BRD, WHM, or RDM got to relax a bit more with other jobs if possible. Sometimes the lacking experience of others stood out here, but usually successes were still had. Regardless, it sucked scheduling something for 8pm, only for us to not get started until 8:30 (which was now 1:30am for the Euro-folk) or later because someone was late, needed more time to job swap, someone vital didn't show up at all, or whatever. Hence the logistics of endgame being a pain in the butt.
Despite my own personal introspection, I know everyone isn't or can't bring themselves to be as bold as I am from time to time, and that's okay. I'd like to think I've got their back if a poignant issue is on my radar. In this particular case, I'd say it's simply the act of being able to participate in content in a timely manner. Some might be okay with the concept of nerfs 6+ months down the road or even the total lack of alternative progression schemes, but I'm not and I know others would like having more choices so even if they are guild hopping or struggling in the harder content with a group they do like, they've still got things to do on the side that can both better themselves and their group(s). Either way, I could hop to numerous game boards and find people telling others what they don't deserve, and ultimately only for selfish reasons. It's a sad thing I see perpetuated in communities via the players and inaction of devs. It sucks seeing your friends list dwindle. It sucks seeing groups break up for reasons outside our control. "Playing together" for me is more than just literally being in the same group, but some staunchly believe that is the meaning and subsequently escalates that into meaning bigger groups are even better for communities. In retrospect, there's likely a good reason why WoW dropped 40-man raids and it's a reason I suspect those at Wildstar will soon rediscover. XIV isn't at such an extreme yet, even though I do believe an FC should be able to field a 24-man CT group. Still, seeing some clamor for things like a 64-man Dynamis in XIV scares me. Done wrong, it will be so utterly terrible for so many people. But if we really are so dead set on those types of numbers, I'd rather look toward FATEs with a respect toward Rift's handling of zone events. Right now, XIV is a poor imitation in that respect, which I have no doubt contributes to the hatred I see some spew about FATEs themselves. Of course, it's usually around this point where someone will hop in and tell me I'm dumb and that I just want to kill the game with my bad ideas. So, I'll cut myself off for now in favor of fetching some grub.