yes it is a bit cumbersome getting things up and running, but NEVER do a default install on any program. always tell it were to install, that will reduce the risk of problems like you discribe.
hmm path of harmony = hibby?
yeah, ive been playing EQ since beta, did a little bit of DAoC when it released, then my ISP started blocking thier IP and ports. i had no choice but to leave then.
new ISP, so i now have access to the game again, and i can tell you the CS, game machanics, eye candy, playability, stability are all way better then EQ.
few things you will note though. little more cumbersome so far as getting around, chatting, and the UI is not as user friendly as EQ.
you will miss the raid window and guild window, but will get used to it. i still miss them, but im lazy about reading though long lists of names.
the trade skills blow EQ away as they really work. also 90% of the classes can solo well, and even the other 10% can solo to an extent unlike EQ were you have classes that can not solo past a specific level range. this is nice, if you just want to go someplace different and hunt on your own for a little bit. i am a casual gamer so i play 1-3hrs max at a time 4-5 days a week.
even with that little bit of game play things come fast enough and are not boring. if they get boring, move to a new area and things will change fast enough for you.