I am sure you have been through this...I know I have.
Everyone loves to group, its how you make a lot of money and level....SOMETIMES....
If your character is so high and you are helping someone low, then noone benefits....by the same token if your character is so low and the partner you group with is so high, depending upon what you attack (to you everything is yellow and above, the high person it's all grey), then again you get no exp.
Unless you are in DF, where everything is pretty insane and even with protection from a powerful player, yes you will level, but chances are you will get killed and wont be able to get back to your grave and also have wasted a couple of hours just to lose it all in an instance, can get aggravating.
The ideal is to get a group of logical people all the same level or so and go a place that is just right for you.
I am sure all of you already know this, but trying to do this is just as difficult as the game itself...unless you have a good guild and thats another subject for a new thread...which I will post shortly.
Wonderful forum this is to post your thoughts, even if everyone doesnt agree with them.
Mageofshannara S l o w climbing Therguist of Albion
Steve