G'day from an aussie DAOCer. My 50 friar has the less used path of 50 staff, 40 enhance, 11 rejuv and 18 parry. This might not be completely accurate haven't played him for over a month but it's close. All i can say is i'm missing the red self-buffs for AF, dex/qui, abs and the speed buff. I went for 50 staff thinking i'd get more dmg to make up for the lower abs and dex/qui, but it doesn't seem like the case. I can still solo reds no probs, but a red soldier in Av city is harder than a red just about anywhere else.
to recommend a spec, i'd go 39 staff, 48 enhance, 15 rejuv for the 30% rez and the rest in parry. the style excommunicate i got at 50 staff doesn't seem that fantastic, i do use it but not much, looking to spend the 5-8 plat it costs for a respec stone and change to this myself, or go on a dragonraid and roll for a stone.
best of luck and enjoy your gaming