I have noticed another form of this rude behavior. In Loping Plains, there are several camps that spawn "named" mobs. Group A is as one camp, my group is at another. Group A will periodically check to see if our camp has a named up. If "our" named pops, and we dont pull right away, they will pull. What makes this worse, is they will not single pull. They will also pull right over our group. We managed to handle the 3 adds, but it wasnt right. We sent a tell to a few in the other group, and the reply back was that there are no camps in EQ, so live with it.
Rude behavior has become the norm in this game, and its sad. For instance, I remember sitting at the entrance to the Tunnel in EC, medding, putting away my book, and finding that I had been buffed while I was sitting. How nice. I would then /ooc a thanks to whoever had buffed me. Now, peeps ask for buff as if they cant do without them, and dont even bother to ask nicely. They will walk up to you, no matter what your status (naked, and in the process of corpse recovery), and basically demand buffs. If you mention that you have no mana, because of your current naked status, you get told off sometimes. Rude. I once was on my way through the GL on my way to the GH, when someone sent me a tell "I need SoE". It was just before I hit the GH door. When I zoned in, I gont another tell, "Where the f**k did you go, I told you I needed a SoE, a**hat!" I promply put him on ignore.
The camp problem, is just one aspect of a larger problem.