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#1 Oct 08 2007 at 7:22 AM Rating: Good
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Geez, the green loot monster appeared again Sunday evening.

Why is it that people just go crazy for a little item??

The play session went well. Everyone getting along. All guildies in the group. THEN a drop that no one in the group needed appears. I put forth the statement (I am group leader should I just forgo being group leader from now on??)

Ok we can do this one of two ways:

1. If anyone has an alt that wants it, roll and who wins logs their alt on.

2. We link it in guild and offer it to first come first served.

You all vote. (I was not voting I had no use for the item for self or alt)

The battle began. This huge debate. Then someone links it to guild and everyone is in on it.

In the mean time said item rots on the ground lol. Amazing.

So, how do you stop this from happening? I will no longer group with 2 members of the group because I see a pattern developing with them. They are the same two the created the wild fire of a mess last Sat. What a shame.

Ideas?? how do you keep such things from upsetting what has been a sweet session?

Edited, Oct 8th 2007 11:35am by Jarez
#2 Oct 08 2007 at 7:28 AM Rating: Decent
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If your group consisted of just guild members, then perhaps your guild needs to come up with some clear loot rules. If it was a PUG, then loot rules should be determined when the group forms.

Personally, I would think the loot should go to those in the group. If no one needs, then it should go to an alt of someone in group. If it still isn't wanted then it could be offered to guild. That's just my opinion, though.
#3 Oct 08 2007 at 7:45 AM Rating: Good
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I totally agree. And that is what I said to them when we began the group.

Even a GL logged on and stated the rules as I had.

It is just amazing how things can deteriate so quickly.

Thank goodness I had already stated that I would need to be logging for some honey time. So I said good night and logged. I have no idea how much longer the debate went on...I am glad! lol

Again, I will be very careful who I choose to group with. I now have a better view of who causes the friction.




#4 Oct 08 2007 at 8:00 AM Rating: Decent
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I really think you may want to take a long hard look at your guild. Every guild has a bad apple here and there but all this fuss onve loot?

Next issue you may have is if you just dont group with the 2 offenders, that will tuen into the " why will she not group with me" saga.

IIRC your a officer in the guild. I know that can mean a lot in some guilda or very little in others. If you really like your guild and want to work on it I would get with the other O's and the GL's and get a police set on this NOW as it seems to be a recuring issue.

As it stood IMHO fisrt shot to mains preasent...then alts of mains in the group then first served to guildys that want it......but with past history a /ooc loot rotting may be a better idea.
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#5 Oct 08 2007 at 9:06 AM Rating: Decent
Time for a new guild. Seriously, I have not run into the problems you are, but very very rarely. I don't even run into what your getting in PUGS, but rarely. Your guild has a lot of people who are very drama based, and hardcore loot hogs, super selfish.

Time to find a new guild, and fast. To many 20-50 year olds going on 12, in your guild, from top, to bottom.

P.S. this guilds sucks to the point of what server you on? If it's one of my servers, please PM me with the guild name so I can avoid them.
#6 Oct 08 2007 at 9:15 AM Rating: Decent
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I was going to ask as well for the same reasons.

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P.S. this guilds sucks to the point of what server you on? If it's one of my servers, please PM me with the guild name so I can avoid them.
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#7 Oct 08 2007 at 1:19 PM Rating: Excellent
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Jarez wrote:
I totally agree. And that is what I said to them when we began the group.


Well, no. You didn't. You presented that and another option and asked your group members to vote.

You were the officer, right? This was a guild group, right? You need to step up and cleary state (or just follow) the rules. Had you simply said: "Ok. Can anyone in group use?", then proceeded to "Ok. Does anyone in group have an alt that can use?", then finally send it out to the guild as open loot, you'd have avoided the entire problem.


Often, leading means *not* putting stuff up to a vote. You knew what the right thing to do was. You knew what the correct guild policy was. By presenting the option to do something different, you put it in people's minds that the option (to grab in guild instead of going to alts) was a viable alternative and you therefore created the problem.

Be decisive. Your guild members rely on you to know and enforce clear rules. You failed to do that IMO.
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#8 Oct 08 2007 at 2:42 PM Rating: Decent
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Well first you need to ask yourself is this issue really about Loot?

If its just a Loot issue then it can be fixxed go to GLs and other officers and ask that guild exp group loot rules be writen into guild charter. Then have have GL officers decide on what those rules will be or have rules decided by members through a vote on guild message board.

After you decide what rules are then everyone sticks by them and issue is finished.

On other hand if problem isnt really about Loot then its going to be much harder issue to deal with. If instead you beleave its a group trying to harass you into ether leaveing are doing things way they want to or else.

If you beleave thats the case then you need to go to GLs pick one you trust the most. Tell him/her what your views are and ask him/her to find a solution (this is why being GL sucks)to the problem. I wouldnt go with not grouping idea it just sets you up for one of them going to GL like I described above with you being the badguy.

What happens next in this case depends on GL. The answers you get back will go along way into telling you if the guild is going to work for you in longterm.

Edited, Oct 8th 2007 3:43pm by SiddarA
#9 Oct 08 2007 at 6:08 PM Rating: Decent
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That's 2 loot problems in a very short time, both of which the loot wasn't anything anyone you group with would even give to an alt. This guild sounds like bottom feeders that can't further their own toons. I would leave them. Not saying its bad to help guildies but these people don't seem to be willing to help themselves and don't sound like they are worth your time.
#10 Oct 09 2007 at 7:49 AM Rating: Decent
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Jarez wrote:

Ok we can do this one of two ways:

1. If anyone has an alt that wants it, roll and who wins logs their alt on.

2. We link it in guild and offer it to first come first served.

You all vote. (I was not voting I had no use for the item for self or alt)

I can see where you'd be a bit gun shy after the last episode, and that may have made you bit wishy-washy this time around. You put the choice out there, and then people had to come to a consensus...that causes problems.

As an alternate solution you could simply state; I don't need this, you guys figure out who gets it, but as you've alluded to, as group leader you feel as though you have some responsiblity to distribute loot fairly.

As others have stated though...from the story you tell, it sounds like a lot of squabbling over some loot. I've not ever encountered that within guild groups. Usually people are most reasonable. Perhaps you're just in a whiney guild, or maybe they just don't see much loot dropping. Either way, doesn't sound like much fun. Smiley: tongue

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#11 Oct 09 2007 at 9:23 AM Rating: Decent
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Dread Lord Srakeats wrote:
Not saying its bad to help guildies but these people don't seem to be willing to help themselves and don't sound like they are worth your time.


Exactly. If they aren't willing to help themselves then they aren't worth the time.

Speaking as a Guild Leader, guild rules are set in stone. You knew them when you signed up and shouldn't have accepted them if you didn't agree. Making exceptions to the rules causes these problems.

I had a few members that had an issue with the way I did things but the majority of the guild was happy. Everyone knew that if they had an issue with something they could ask me about them and I would explain why it was being done the way it was.

Loot was fairly simple: Group, guild mains, alts then /OOC

Basically your an officer, make a decision and stick to it. Guild Officers should be appointed for leadership ability and the ability to make decisions with the guild as a whole in mind. If you can't do that then you shouldn't be an officer.

(Whether your an Officer or just the group leader, your still acting as the leader. Make decisions and stick to them.)

Edited, Oct 9th 2007 11:24am by Raolan
#12 Oct 09 2007 at 9:42 AM Rating: Decent
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Raolan wrote:
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Basically your an officer, make a decision and stick to it. Guild Officers should be appointed for leadership ability and the ability to make decisions with the guild as a whole in mind. If you can't do that then you shouldn't be an officer.
I really don't think it was stated anywhere that she is an officer. I think that was a gbaji inference (dang right-wing media bias!!).
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#13 Oct 09 2007 at 9:46 AM Rating: Good
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If its just a Loot issue then it can be fixxed go to GLs and other officers and ask that guild exp group loot rules be writen into guild charter. Then have have GL officers decide on what those rules will be or have rules decided by members through a vote on guild message board.

I would never stay in a guild that tried to dictate rules for xp group loot. There are ways to stop loot problems from cropping up, but trying to dictate a guild-wide policy for single group loot is silly.
#14 Oct 09 2007 at 11:42 AM Rating: Decent
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I believe in the other thread she stated she's a O.

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Raolan wrote:
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Basically your an officer, make a decision and stick to it. Guild Officers should be appointed for leadership ability and the ability to make decisions with the guild as a whole in mind. If you can't do that then you shouldn't be an officer.
I really don't think it was stated anywhere that she is an officer. I think that was a gbaji inference (dang right-wing media bias!!).
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#15 Oct 09 2007 at 12:02 PM Rating: Decent
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Sir rosleck wrote:
I believe in the other thread she stated she's a O.

The Elinda of Doom wrote:
Raolan wrote:
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Basically your an officer, make a decision and stick to it. Guild Officers should be appointed for leadership ability and the ability to make decisions with the guild as a whole in mind. If you can't do that then you shouldn't be an officer.
I really don't think it was stated anywhere that she is an officer. I think that was a gbaji inference (dang right-wing media bias!!).
Yeah, guess so. Sorry gbaji..Smiley: wink
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#16 Oct 09 2007 at 12:33 PM Rating: Decent
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I would never stay in a guild that tried to dictate rules for xp group loot. There are ways to stop loot problems from cropping up, but trying to dictate a guild-wide policy for single group loot is silly.



A policy of we dont have a policy on group loot so dont bring conflict about it to rest of Guild is one of choices. What actual policy chosen isnt as important as there simply being a policy. Most people wont care one way or another what policy is most will value fairness and guild harmony over Loot. Well they will if there worth being guilded with fairness you acheave by haveing a policy even if its a we dont have a policy policy harmony is acheaved by guild following it.

Some may well oppose chosen policy to point that they will leave guild if they dont get there way. That is the downside of haveing a policy but in end if a person is willing to leave a guild because they dont like a policy on guild exp groups whatever that policy may be then your probaly better off without them.

Many guilds have a few strange policys for sole reason of testing loyalty and willingness of new recruits to adapt to guilds way of doing things. Complaining about loot is fastest way to get yourself thrown out of a guild as new memeber. Valueing Loot over a guildtag is a sure indication to many that person is only concerned for themselfs are that there so inflexxable in there views that they cant work with others unless they always get there way.
#17 Oct 09 2007 at 12:47 PM Rating: Decent
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As a guild leader, we have a policy that the loot goes to the group only ( ie..either the group member or their alts.) The group only rolls for the item, and if they want to give it to an alt or to another member of the guild, then fine, but we dont announce loot until it has been looted.
And in your case, with a no drop item, log your alt or forget it. The only addendum to this is any epic piece, which we will announce in guild chat.
Loot can really get people in wierd states, so maybe next time,keeping it within the group will help keep things calm.
#18 Oct 09 2007 at 1:04 PM Rating: Decent
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Let me add that im not a advocate of haveing a guild policy on everything are even group loot in paticular.

I beleave you can avoid most issues in guilds by treating others in guild with respect. Some issues through will just become points of conflict they will be different points in different guilds. When those points of conflict appear setting guild policy to diffuse the conflict will both headoff conflict growing and increase guild unity by giveing memebers a clear answer on matter.

Jarez's guild sounds like it very much needs to set some policys and assert its identity as guild. My guess is some wont like it and will leave. That still is a better choice then doing nothing and letting factions build up of people in guild that dont like each other until point where guild rips its self apart.
#19 Oct 10 2007 at 11:34 AM Rating: Decent
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Looking at both of these instances, I feel the problem was caused by the loot being linked to Guild prematurely. Whoever linked the item before the group had fully decided what would be done with it seems to have caused the uproar.
#20 Oct 10 2007 at 11:09 PM Rating: Decent
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I think the root of the problem is just some bad personalities who are much too greedy/uppity about things like loot. If the first problem wasn't enough, and this one ends up not being either, I can't help but wonder how many days it will be before we're hearing about major guild uproar #3.
#21REDACTED, Posted: Oct 11 2007 at 8:55 AM, Rating: Unrated, (Expand Post) a piece of loot causing a ruckus in a game totally centered around loot that doesnt drop often enough to make it common.........
#22 Oct 15 2007 at 7:23 AM Rating: Good
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"I can't help but wonder how many days it will be before we're hearing about major guild uproar #3."

There will be no more guild uproars....this week has been fine...because I have not grouped with the 2 people that were creating part the issues. And loot rules are more established now.

As I said, after the 2nd "event" I saw what/who was causing things to get out of hand. Each of you have been right! And I have taken the following steps.

1. Looting rules need and have been set out and clearly explained.

2. No linking will be done until the loot has been given to the player that has been awarded the loot and only the "winner" will link it if he/she wishes.

3. Only the group decides how the looting will be done.

4. The group leader will:
a. ask if anyone in group wants loot - if no one THEN
b. ask if a group members alt can use it - if no THEN
c. ask if we open it up to guild - if no one in guild wants THEN
d. ask if we open it up to ooc - if no one in ooc ...it rots

5. If someone links the item to the guild prematurely that char is kicked from the group. This is stated when the group is formed.

Thank you so much for all your input, suggests and advice!

PS: I knew this lol have been in guilds for years. I had just never been in a guild that had a GL butt into an established group and try to say who should join it and who should get what loot. Yikes! The Guild Leader has now spoken with the guild, said she should not have butted in and apologized.
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