I haven't played EQ since late '03, and unlike most people that post here about returning, I have had no such urge. I thoroughly enjoyed the 4 years I did play and look back at most of it with fond memory. On the other hand, I do loath SOE enough to even pass their consumer electronics by for another brand when I am in the market. I think it is hard for some of the newer people to fully understand how much hate there was for Sony when they took over and started changing things.
Anyway... I always look in on this forum from time to time because I spent many years here as an active poster. This was one of the first forum communities I was a part of and it was (and is) a damn good group of people. Many of the same people from back then are still posting here. I made friends on the forum that translated to friends in game, that have since remained friends out of game. It doesn't get any better than that! I believe that EQ brought in a different type of person, someone more involved in roleplay, perhaps more mature, certainly more respectful and friendly than other games tend to attract. A subset of those people came here and made this place just a nice place to spend time.
Some of the recent posts here about the EQ community no longer being friendly are quite interesting. As others said, we had to work together back then. The same reasons I left (inability to find groups, the proliferation of multi-boxers, inability to solo) remain today. I suspect that some of the people left are basically solo-boxing their way through the game with little to no concern for others around them.
Still this community is a friendly, helpful one. It is sad that there is so little traffic here nowadays, but that is just representative of the populations in EQ. In the end, it won't matter: whenever you started playing, whenever you left, you will look back on EQ with good memories.
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