First, your questions already imply negativity. If you just want to present a one-sided paper why even bother asking? Obviously, you've already decided EQ is addictive and "we" spend too much of our time playing it.
Secondly, who are you? What are you writing about? Giving a little more information about the project you're working on, the school you go to, or anything at all really will help you receive better answers.
Third, you aren't the first person to ask these types of questions. Search the forums - you'll find many, many people asking the same thing - also writing papers and whatnot. Nick Yee is one of the best of these - you can find his work on The Daedalus Project here: http://www.nickyee.com/hub/home.html
And he tells us who he is!