i use to 3 box with 1 gb ram 2.8 ghz cpu 128mb vid, first thing to do is clip setting half way. in options before you start turn off all but your characters armor graphic setting. make sure graphics set to low also. works great wineq helps the cpu from over heating.
get 1 more gb of ram like i have now and 4 boxing with most armor graphics on and mid graphics setting. window size have a bit of effect too but not much. it's best to keep each window behind eachothr not to make them smaller and side by side as your graphics card memory will have issues.
one last tip download some memory clearer. and run before you start EQ helps me a ton. but don't clear memory after you start EQ it tendes to kill the game
hope this helps
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