Personally I'm not one that really likes to charm pets and use them. Maybe it is because I'm not that experienced with the entire set-up. I was reading about the level 65 pet for Necro's and a discussion that many felt charming was the way to go over using your pet.
In the planes do Necro's often charm pets in groups and use them?
I have been in some plane groups where Druids and Chanters charmed. By the time they charmed and we had one or two to fight most people got very confused which mob to fight. Most times someone inevitably attacked the charmed pet and in the end the person that charmed it died from agro.
I'm not sure I really would want to be in a group and have to stop assisting in order to recharm my pet or kill it. I completely understand the charm pet's output of damage if far greater but other than using it as a solo tool it seems to me a way to muddy the waters in a group.
Am I off base or do I need to be educated here?