I am going to break you post down and answer sections since it's quiet complicated to answer the whole thing.
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For about 6 months I played FFXI to find out that it had no end-game whatsoever.
There is even less 'End game' to EQ the top guild with people who have played for 5 years+ have not finished the game, ther is always something else to do.
Thats the games main appeal to alot of people, but if you looking for a game iwth a deffinate end, EQ is not the game your looking for.
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Now, with EQ2 right around the corner, would it be unwise of me to start playing Everquest now?
I am one of many people who think that EQ2 will A. not be out for a very long time <already postponed twice and no Beta test announced yet.> B. be a flop since no charicters will be allowed to continue to EQ 2. <how many people having invested years on an account are going to up and leave?> So you have plenty of time.
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How hard would it be for me to start from scratch and learn the ropes? Could i make it to a decent level before EQ2 comes out, or would I be wasting my time dilly-dallying around?
Not hard at all EQ is very very newbie friendly now and all the people who have come this board and asked about starting have been very positive about thier experiances. you can easily get to the stage of Raiding in less than 12 months with a good guild and experiance all but the very highest level of the game.
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I feel betrayed that FFXI turned so sour, and I'm looking for a quality MMORPG.
I took a long hard look at FFXI when it came out and to me they aimed it at far to young a player base. EQ tends to be adult orientated and as such has a more long term stability.
But if you looking for a game with a start and end you will not find one in the MMORPG market, by thier very nature they are not intended to be games you finish.