Tunare. I joined and chose it as one lower on the list based on population, easier access, and have found it great. Lower pop means lower camp situations and more phat lewt.
also found some great people, joined a guild mainly on the strength of what three different members had done for me while I was coming up - buffs, a small item gift, rescue in time of trouble. They just happened by and did these things to help a newbie, two of them ended up walking me through some stuff and taking a lot of time to help me get experience the real way, by doing, as they stayed nearby giving suggestions and advice and the occasion hand when things got grim.
Anyway, guild is "Eternal Virtue", formerly Norath's Knights of Virtue, and is worth checking out if you do try that server. Has nice mix of groups that are hard core raid monsters and ones like our that do well, have skills, and have fun
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