Zenotex, you're getting all kinds of good advice but you have to evaluate yourself.
1. Choose between Good vs Evil
2. Choose Melee vs Healer
3. Choose Race
Let me share my experience.
When I began (after reading everything I could from this site and Caster's Realm) I started a Wood Elf Female Druid. She was a good choice because I didn't want to play evil, I love elves and I wanted to live in the trees. She was an all around character and wonderful to explore with. She lasted until level 20.
My next character was a Barbarian Male Warrior, because I was tired of being beaten up by Orcs. I just wanted to wade in and beat the brains out of anything that got in my way. I couldn't bring myself to play evil yet. He lasted until level 30.
Next I went through a series of casters, Mage, Wizard, and Cleric. All have their advantage and weakness. Most lasted until level 17 or 18. Also all were Good and Female.
I then chose a Dwarf Male Rogue who lasted into his 30s and I still have him but seldom play him. I got tired of being a half Tank. I learned to like pet classes.
I finally decided on an Erudite Female Enchanter, I could go into any good or evil city, had a pet and was needed in groups. She is my main character.
But recently, after playing for 2 years, I decided to create both an Ogre Male Shadow Knight and a Female Troll Beastlord. They both have been satisfying. But I still don't know if I would have created them without having Plains of Power because travel is much easier now then when evil classes had to sneak onto boats to go from place to place.
My rationale for choosing Male vs Female is in my head only. I view Melee types as Male and I view Females as casters. I prefer Good over Evil because I'm lazy, I want to have fewer enemies in the world, this is a hard game without making it harder.
I made my race decision based on advise from Caster's Realm and threads I read here in Allakhazam.
You WILL make mistakes about creating your character, but that's part of what makes that character unique. I have started about 20 characters and not one has been perfect, but they have all been fun to create and play with. If I didn't like them I deleted them and created another.
You should probably play what your heart tells you you want to play. Start there and have fun!
That's my
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